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Turtle out of shell's avatar

I feel like I have to defend the use of shorthands. It is much easier to say I am addicted to social media than explain I have difficulty controlling the time I spend on social media although it gets in the way of my more long term goals and values and no matter how much I try to forgo the short term pleasure I get from social media to engage in activities that can help me get to my longer term goals I keep slipping back and then feeling dissatisfied with myself

Yes, those who think dopamin hit is a scientific explanation are using an erroneous and unhelpful model the same way that if someone thinks the pain they feel when they are dumped is literally because their heart is broken. But using the expression that I am heartbroken is a helpful shorthand.

I guess I am just saying let's not nitpick on how people talk

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Great piece! I love the line “People struggling with genuine addictions have their issues devalued by overuse and dismissal, like if papercuts were regularly described as ‘amputations’.” I have been making the same point about “trauma”. We psychologists have long had a problem over generalization.

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